In the company of writers

Jul
27

I received an email over the weekend informing me that famed photographer Jerry Bauer died last week.  Jerry’s relative wrote to tell me that family members were comforted by a post I wrote about being photographed by Jerry in 2008.

In tribute to a remarkable man, here it is.  I’m certain there are many who share my sadness at Jerry’s passing.  For a glimpse of only some of his photos, visit here.

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I almost deleted his email, the subject line–French Publisher Wants Publicity Shots–looked suspicious. Surely this was another come on to entice an eager writer. But wait, I have a French publisher. So I opened the message to find that Belfond was sending famed photographer, Jerry Bauer to the United States to take two author photos. Mine was one of them.

We spoke first by phone. He was calling from Italy, where he lives most of the year. Charming yet directive, he suggested where we would meet–the Inn at Harvard on a Saturday in four weeks–and what I should wear. He said, “I will recognize you because I’ve been to your website and have seen your photo. Let me tell you how you will know me. On a good day, I am Elton John. On a bad day, I am Woody Allen.”

Intrigued and excited, I prepped for the big day. New make-up. I got my hair trimmed. And thanks to my dear daughter, I found the perfect dress. She was on spring break and asked if she could join me. “Sure, he sounds like an interesting man. It will be fun,” I said. He’d told me he’d photographed, Kiran Desai, Jhumpa Lahiri, Alice Sebold, Tom Perrotta, Gail Tsukiyama, Tim O’Brien, Joyce Carol Oates, Robert Penn Warren, Geraldine Brooks, and the list goes on and on. I couldn’t wait to hear more.

So we arrive on time and in he walks. More Woody than Elton, he came in holding only a well-worn bag. I must have looked puzzled. “Everything I need is in it,” he said. With camera in hand, Jerry started walking. I followed.

Jerry Bauer is a light master. He would ask me to move and sit and stand, all while he looked for the right light. Each photo was painstakingly orchestrated, yet I felt relaxed, I posed effortlessly. While he worked, he talked, telling me about the thrill of photographing Simone de Beauvoir and Jack Kerouac. Dean Koontz likes to be photographed in his home, as does Gail Godwin. Luciano Pavarotti liked to share a meal before being photographed. And Elizabeth Taylor, “Well she didn’t much care whether you took the photo or not. After all, she’s Elizabeth Taylor.”

In short order, he said we were done and that the tea would be out momentarily. It was as if he lived right there at the Inn. My daughter and I took our seats at the table covered in white linen.  The tea and scones arrived, and Jerry told us about being a  movie set photographer in the sixties and seventies. My daughter, a music major in college, swooned when she heard about all the opera singers Jerry has met and photographed.

At the end of our tea, I asked Jerry if I would be able to use one of the photos on my website. He said, “Of course.”

“I like the way you do business,” I said.

“I don’t do business, I meet people,” he said.

And that sums it up. Jerry spends his life meeting people. His life is rich because he’s doing what he loves. He’s using his talent to capture each artist’s personality and he enjoys every minute of it.

When I left the Inn, I didn’t much think about whether the photos would be good enough to grace the cover of the French version of Life Without Summer. I had an experience of a lifetime. Photographed by Jerry Bauer, I was in the company of writers.

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Prolonged Grief

Jul
26

This morning I sat down with Sara Underwood of Boston’s Fox Morning News to discuss a topic that affects so many. Prolonged grief syndrome is a type of depression everyone should know about.

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Epigraphs

Jul
23

Epigraphs are those snippets of famous quotes or poems often found at the beginning of a novel and sometimes the beginning of each chapter.  One can serve as a prologue or summary, or to link the work to another more widely know literary piece.

Most know the intent of an epigraph is to set the tone of the work. A personal preference among writers, some use them, some don’t.

As a reader, I love to find them in books and then try to imagine the intended connection.  As a writer, I love searching for just the right one to fit the theme of my writing.

Sea Escape has been out for two weeks, and I’ve been surprised at how many interviewers and readers have commented on the epigraph I chose to open the novel.

For whether it be a strong wire rope or a slender delicate thread that holds the bird, it matters not, if it really holds it fast; for, until the cord be broken, the bird cannot fly. —Saint John of the Cross

In this interview with Dr. Alvin Jones, I explain my choice and discuss how this quote sums up the premise of my story.

Themes in Sea Escape

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Behind the story of Sea Escape

Jul
20

Thank you Simon & Schuster for allowing me to share the story behind Sea Escape.

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Sea Escape in the News

Jul
11

I’m really enjoying sharing the story behind SEA ESCAPE, how I found my parents’ love letters and crafted a fictional story around them.  This morning, I appeared on WIP-610’s Conversations with Peter Solomon in Philadelphia.  Take a listen here. Sea Escape WIP-610 Philly.

I’m grateful to the following outlets for inviting me to share my story with readers.

The Art of Balance at Writers Unboxed

What Grub Street Writers means to me at Run for Grub

Review in South Shore Living Magazine

Review at She’s Too Fond of Books

Thanks also to the staff of Buttonwood Books in Cohassett, MA and the staff at Where the Sidewalk Ends in Chatham MA.  Both of these terrific independent bookstores hosted receptions to launch my second novel.

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Sea Escape on Fox

Jul
08

This morning, I sat down with Fox Morning News anchor Kim Carrigan to discuss my new novel Sea Escape.

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Sea Escape in the News

Jul
07

I couldn’t be happier about the response from readers about my second novel SEA ESCAPE.  Last Thursday, the novel was chosen by the PBS television program Greater Boston as a best of summer pick.

(Be sure to scroll down to the video called summer books)

In big over the weekend news, I was elated to learn SEA ESCAPE has been chosen as a top ten must-read summer book by Entertainment Weekly.

Here’s a snippet of the review-

“…a multi-generational novel that plucks the heartstrings like Django Reinhardt.”

It’s an embarrassment of riches with this Patriot Ledger feature on my work.  And this great review of SEA ESCAPE on my first stop on my TLC Book Tour.

Check out this round-up in the Boston Globe of Grub Street writers publishing this month. Congrats to fellow writing instructor Michelle Hoover on the publication of her acclaimed novel THE QUICKENING.

If you’d like to learn more about the story behind the story of SEA ESCAPE, how I found my parents’ love letters and crafted a fictional story around them, listen to my interview with Pat Farnack on WCBS-NY radio.

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Sea Escape Publication Day

Jul
06

Dear Friends,

I’m pleased to announce that my second novel, SEA ESCAPE is in bookstores. I’ve been a family life expert for more than twenty years, and there’s so much about my work that inspires my fictional stories. Yet this novel is deeply personal.

I wrote SEA ESCAPE after my own mother became ill in 2000 and I found a cache of love letters written to her by my father. For years after his death, my mother struggled with prolonged grief disorder, while I tried to make sense of her sadness.

In writing my second novel, I believe I’ve found a way. The actual love letters written by my father have been woven into an imagined story exploring the impact of broken parental relationships on young children.

Laura Martinez is wedged in the middle place, grappling with her busy life as a nurse, wife, and devoted mom to Henry and Claire, when her estranged mother, Helen, suffers a devastating stroke.

In a desperate attempt to lure her mother into choosing life, Laura goes to Sea Escape, the pristine beach home that Helen took refuge in when her carefully crafted life unraveled years ago, after the death of her beloved husband, Joseph. There, Laura hunts for the legendary love letters her father wrote to her mother, believing the beauty and sway of her father’s words have the power to heal.

Laura reads the letters bedside to her mother–a woman who once spoke the language of fabric; of Peony Sky in Jade and Paradise Garden Sage–but who can’t or won’t speak to her now. As Laura delves deeper into her tangled family history, each letter revealing patchwork details of her parents’ marriage, she finds a common thread. A secret, mother and daughter unknowingly share.

I hope you enjoy this novel–dedicated to my parents–about the ties that bind mothers and daughters.  Please forward this announcement to someone you know who might enjoy it too.

Best, Lynne Griffin

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Mothers and Daughters

Jun
30

A week from now, my second novel SEA ESCAPE will be published.  Inspired by my own mother-daughter relationship, and letters my father wrote to her in the early days of their romance, the novel is an imagined story about the ties that bind mothers and daughters.

Certainly I’m focused on this most primal of relationships, yet it seems everything I read lately explores the fine strong thread between mothers and daughters.

I just finished reading  THE HAND THAT FIRST HELD MINE by Maggie O’Farrell and I can’t stop thinking about it.  It’s a tender, moving, and intriguing story about what it means to be a mother, and the psychological unraveling that comes as a result of being estranged.

Then this morning, I came across this beautiful essay, written by Laura Zigman, author of ANIMAL HUSBANDRY, about the last days of her mother’s life.  I wept when I read, “stripped of her toughness and her defenses — of everything that had made her who she was, so impossible to know — she was finally the mother I’d always wanted: the kind whose face lit up the moment she saw me.”

If these reflective pieces have you hungry for more on the ins and outs of the mother-daughter relationship from a psychological perspective,  check out this article, Our Mothers–Ourselves.

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Book Club Giveaway

Jun
28

Forty-plus writers—who met online—have banded together to share books with book club readers.  Those participating bridge the commercial-literary divide, among them National Book Award Winner, Julia Glass; Oprah Pick, A. Manette Ansay; and New York Times bestseller, Marisa de los Santos.

From edgy short stories to upmarket fiction to beach reads, book club members will have a wide variety from which to read and discuss.  Book club winners can claim titles deemed Target Breakout Books, Borders Original Voices, Indie Next List picks, PEN-LL Winship, Guggenheim, and Whiting Award winners.

Go to author Leah Stewart’s facebook page to enter.  And check out this amazing list of authors and their books.

Sea Escape, by me
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Husband and Wife, by Leah Stewart
http://www.leahstewart.com/

The House on Fortune Street, by Margot Livesey
http://www.margotlivesey.com/

I See You Everywhere, by Julia Glass

Love in Mid Air, by Kim Wright
http://www.loveinmidair.com/

Diamond Ruby, by Joseph Wallace
http://www.josephwallace.com/

Belong to Me, by Marisa de los Santos
http://www.marisadelossantos.com/

Pictures of You, by Caroline Leavitt
http://www.carolineleavitt.com/

Good Things I Wish You, by A. Manette Ansay
http://www.amanetteansay.com/

The Seamstress of Hollywood Boulevard, by Erin McGraw
http://www.erinmcgraw.com/

Girl Trouble, by Holly Goddard Jones
http://www.hollygoddardjones.com/

Tunneling to the Center of the Earth, by Kevin Wilson
http://www.wilsonkevin.com

Miles from Nowhere, by Nami Mun
http://milesfromnowherethenovel.wordpress.com/bio/

The Nobodies Album, by Carolyn Parkhurst
http://www.carolynparkhurst.com/

Red Hook Road, by Ayelet Waldman
http://www.ayeletwaldman.com/

The One That I Want, by Allison Winn Scotch
http://www.allisonwinn.com/

Disaster Preparedness, by Heather Havrilesky
http://www.salon.com/entertainment/tv/heather_havrilesky/index.html

Stiltsville, by Susanna Daniel
http://www.susannadaniel.com/

My American Unhappiness, by Dean Bakopoulos
http://www.deanbakopoulos.com/index.html

Real Life & Liars, by Kristina Riggle
http://www.kristinariggle.net/

The First Husband, by Laura Dave
http://www.lauradave.com/

The Local News, by Miriam Gershow
http://www.miriamgershow.com/

Good Enough to Eat, by Stacey Ballis
http://www.thepolymathchronicles.blogspot.com/

Refresh, Refresh, by Benjamin Percy
http://www.benjaminpercy.com/

How to Sleep Alone in a King-Sized Bed, by Theo Nestor
http://www.theopaulinenestor.com/

The Truth About Delilah Blue, by Tish Cohen

A Maze of Grace, by Trish Ryan
http://www.trishryanonline.com/

The Love Goddess’s Cooking School, by Melissa Senate
http://www.melissasenate.com/

The Embers, by Hyatt Bass
http://www.hyattbass.com/

The Fury & The Darkness by Jason Pinter
http://www.jasonpinter.com/

The Last Will of Moira Leahy, by Therese Walsh
http://theresewalsh.com/

Life After Yes, by Aidan Donnelley Rowley
http://ivyleagueinsecurities.com/

Not Ready for Mom Jeans, by Maureen Lipinski
http://www.maureenlipinski.com/

After You, by Julie Buxbaum
http://www.juliebuxbaum.com/blog/

The Lost Girls, by Amanda Pressner, Holly Corbett, & Jennifer Baggett
http://www.lostgirlsworld.com/

Exley, by Brock Clarke
http://arsonistsguide.com/author-blog

The Seven Year Switch, by Claire Cook
http://www.ClaireCook.com/

Stay, by Allie Larkin
http://www.AllieLarkinWrites.com/

Pieces of Happily Ever After, by Irene Zutell
http://www.irenezutell.com/

Pug Hill, by Alison Pace
http://www.alisonpace.com/

The Opposite of Me, Sarah Pekkanen
http://www.sarahpekkanen.com/

The Transformation of Things, by Jillian Cantor
http://www.jilliancantor.com/

Out of the Shadows, by Joanne Rendell
http://www.joannerendell.com/

Love Stories in This Town, by Amanda Eyre Ward
http://www.amandaward.com/

Trophy, by Michael Griffith

Tethered, by Amy MacKinnon
http://www.amymackinnon.com/

The Language of Light, by Meg Waite Clayton
http://www.megwaiteclayton.com/

Miss Me When I’m Gone, by Philip Stephens
http://www.philipstephensauthor.com/

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